Assessment Analyst
Verification Specialist
Solutions Consultant
Certified MBTI Analyst & Verification Support Coach
Certified MMTIC Verification Analyst (mbti for kids ages 7-18)
TTI Success Insights Driving Forces Motivations Specialist & DISC Behavior Analyst
Emotional Intelligence EQ Growth Mentor
Communications Trainer & Script Writer
....Older Mother of 3 Sons....
....Breast Cancer Survivor....
Hebrew Handwriting Spiritual Development Facilitator
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Do NOT be afraid of change
There are things that will no longer work in 2024 and beyond.
Change is about NOTICING
what's no longer working &
stepping out of the FAMILIAR
patterns & habits that limit,
And INTO The New.
If we are to evolve instead of revolve,
it's time to take action NOW.
Success Secrets
Get yourself prepared
Get your child prepared
for both
Opportunity & Competition.
Jim Rohn
American entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker
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What does Coach Ruth do?
I help mbti-advocates
--especially NF-types--
tweak "things" to experience MORE ease-in-this-world while retaining their Identity.
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What is the Job of the Human Being?
It is to grow in a healthy way.
Not like a "wild plant".
To put attention toward
GROWING
To make us better people....
To change our lives....
To manifest the impact GOD / G-D intended
our lives to have.
Areas in which to Grow....
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Hi there, I am Coach Ruth
The truth:
"The Greatest Tragedy in Life is not death.
It is Life without Purpose.
The Greatest Tragedy in Life is not knowing WHY you're here."
Myles Munroe
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help “mothers of boys”
and NF-TYPES
--especially single women--
attain Peace-of-Mind
in raising boys
with Confidence.
How Do You Benefit?
My 3 greatest gifts are Clarity and Vision and Instruction.
Where Big Picture, Clarity, and Instruction intersect....
THIS is where I add the most value.
As John C. Maxwell says, "it's my sweet spot".
Why do I "clarify things with Clarity"?
To add value to people.
Why do I "envision the Big Picture"?
To add value to people.
Why do I teach & design instructional materials?
To add value to people.
THAT'S ...HOW...
I MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
sounding board • \SOUND-ing-BORD\ • noun :
"a person on whom one tries out an idea or opinion as a means of evaluating it"
Coach Ruth can be your Sounding Board for what is perplexing you.
One of my Coaching Venues
COACHING SESSIONS WHILE WALKING IN NATURE
"In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks."
-John Muir
"IT'S A GREAT ART TO SAUNTER"
-Henry David Thoreau
Welcome to Guidance Counselling in 2024
Since we are body, soul and spirit.... spiritual development needs some of our attention.
Guidance Counselling would be incomplete without addressing spiritual development.
Therefore, Coach Ruth offers instruction and support to others in "growing" a
Contemplative Lifestyle that includes the very GROUNDING practice of handwriting Bible verses
in.... Hebrew Cursive Script.
Welcome 2024 The Year of the Open Door to Deeper Wisdom
Testimonials
About Coach Ruth
Testimonial #1
Melinda Gracias
Consultant for Creative Teams
Sales & Marketing
portfolio: www.melindagracias.com
Coach Ruth has a really great understanding of the MBTI and the different perspectives each type experiences in the world. Her program helped me so much with my own Self-Care, mental processing, conversations, interactions, and navigating my relationships with opposite types.
She explained the various perspectives of each type in a way that made sense to me and motivated me to work well with them.
Her Scripts are a real Life-Saver.
She is great at showing each type how to work & live well with others. … Coach Ruth supported me using “Translations” that helped me to understand how others think. … Her understanding really helped to smooth interactions with the different MBTI types, and, she demonstrated how-to "Re-Frame Past Experiences" in a very practical & clear manner.
I have grown so much in my own confidence through Coach Ruth's guidance and support. … Her knowledge of MBTI Cognitive Stacks empowers her to really help people Navigate Real Life Situations through practical applications such as The Tablecloth (TM) and Table Legs (TM). These really simple but effective tools can guide each type into better and deeper understanding. The Result at the end is:
more satisfying experiences in everyday life.
Thanks so much Coach Ruth.
Melinda, London, England
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Testimonial #2
Joy Charles
Real Property Joy Services
Real Estate Professionals
www.realpropertyjoy.com
I have known Coach Ruth for about 25 years
now ....since 1997.... and I have always admired her
for these 4 things....
- Versatility : her ability to be flexible even within structure
- The Wonderful Way she relates to her clients : always looking at ways to serve them better
- Her Ability to Find ethically sound, creative, and effective solutions to various kinds of challenges, both business & personal, and
- The way she is able to create or come up with simple and inexpensive, yet very effective small business and home-based business ideas (like an Idea Factory) AND business promotion strategies.
In addition to seeing The Big Picture clearly,
Coach Ruth is also detail oriented and a bit of
a perfectionist, which results in her work being consistently of high quality.
And on the rare occasion that something does not go quite as planned, she takes responsibility &
makes it right because she values
both fairness and her clients.
She has earned the title :
Solutions Consultant
I highly recommend Coach Ruth.
Joy C, California, USA
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Testimonial #3
James Martin | TeamLife Training
Leadership Coach & Business Trainer
Trainer at Tony Robbins (15 Years)
www.teamlifetraining.com
I loved the DiSC Behaviour Profiling & Debriefing Consultation with Coach Ruth.
She arrived fully prepared with her own notes from analysing my profile and the assessment report's potential impact for me. She walked me through the many different components of my report and shared the results while continually checking in with me and how
I was receiving the information and the meaning
I was giving it.
This TTI Success Insights TriMetrix® DNA
for Management & Staff Report will be
especially valuable in my
coaching and training role
as we help leaders and senior teams get breakthrough results in business.
I loved Ruth’s professionalism, her organisation
and her deep understanding
of human behaviour.
This Debriefing Session has been of enormous value to me, both for myself and my clients.
Thanks to Coach Ruth.
James Martin | TeamLife Training
Ireland
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Why Psycho-metrics?
To understand our relationships
with others we must first
understand ourselves.
Bill J. Bonnstetter
"In charting a course to sail your boat around the world, you don't hire a navigator who still believes the Earth is flat."
Bill J. Bonnstetter
Target Training International, Ltd. was founded in 1984 by Bill J. Bonnstetter and his son, Dave Bonnstetter.
&
TTI Success Insights was incorporated in 1984 specialising in business consulting, DISC, executive coaching, personal assessments, and Talent Management.
TTI SI is the worldwide leader in the
assessment industry.
With extensive research, the Bonnstetters continue to enhance, develop and validate assessment-based solutions that drive results.
"Even excellent leaders hire poorly at times."
SAMPLES
Assessment Analysis Work
TriMetrix® DNA
for Management & Staff
TriMetrix® DNA : measuring Behaviours,
Driving Forces and Competencies!
The TriMetrix® DNA Coaching Report
is a powerful assessment that
combines three (3) sciences
to help you explore three (3) key areas
of Performance:
1-- HOW we behave and communicate — using the world famous DISC assessment
2-- WHY we move into action — using the simple yet powerful Driving Forces™ assessment
3-- WHICH competencies / soft skills we have mastered and to what degree — using the TTI DNA® assessment
This powerful combination is available
in a number of versions (explained below)
and covers 4 sections:
- Behaviour Style
- Driving Forces
- Competencies
- INTEGRATED SECTION combining Behaviour & Motivations feedback.
This layered approach provides a fantastic framework for people to build AWARENESS and APPRECIATION of their potential strengths,
opportunities for growth,
and
To craft : Specific Action Plans
For Professional Development.
The Table of Contents:
BEHAVIORS / DISC section
This section of the report is designed to help the individual attain a greater knowledge of oneself as well as others. The ability to interact effectively with people may be the difference between success & failure in work and personal life.
Effective interaction starts with an accurate perception of oneself.
Includes:
— General Characteristics
— Value to the Organization
— Checklist for Communicating
— Communication Tips
— Absence of a Behavioral Factor
— Natural and Adapted Style
— Time Wasters
— Areas for Improvement
— and more
MOTIVATORS Section
This section of the report provides information on the WHY of one's actions which - with application & coaching - can tremendously impact valuing of life. Once the person knows the motivations that drive his/her actions, s/he will immediately be able to understand the causes of conflict.
Includes:
— Results for the 6 basic interests or motivators
— Navigating Situations Outside Your Comfort Zone
— Norms & Comparisons
— Motivators Hierarchy
— and more
INTEGRATING BEHAVIORS + MOTIVATORS Section
This section of the report will help blend the HOW and the WHY of the individual's actions. Once the person can understand how one's behaviors & motivators blend together, his/her performance will be enhanced and s/he will experience an increase in satisfaction.
This section includes:
— Potential Behavioral & Motivational Strengths
— Potential Behavioral & Motivational Conflict
— Ideal Environment
— Keys to Motivating
— Keys to Managing
DNA - COMPETENCIES section
This section presents 25 key competencies / soft skills & ranks them from top to bottom, defining major strengths. The skills at the top highlight well-developed capabilities & reveal where the person is naturally most effective in focusing his/her time.
Includes:
— Development Indicator
- Well Developed
- Developed
- Moderately Developed
- Needs Development
— Competencies Needing Development
— Getting the Most From Your Report
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Talent Insights®
Talent Insights® was developed as the world's first multi-science assessment.
It is unique in the market because it combines the power of TTISI's world famous DISC and Driving Forces assessments into a single, integrated report, BLENDING the Feedback from BOTH Tools.
As a double-science assessment, Talent Insights® provides us with two (2) perspectives to understand the people we work with:
1-- it explores their behavioural style
(HOW they prefer to behave and communicate)
as well as their
2-- personal motivators
(WHY they move into action).
When using a traditional single-dimensional assessment, we can miss (or have to assume) so much about what makes a person who they are.
With a multi-science assessment, such as
Talent Insights® ... we have more places to look for answers and a more complete framework to help people understand themselves and others.
COMMON USES FOR THE TALENT INSIGHTS
Recruitment:
*Selection
*Induction
*Job Benchmarking
Training & Development:
*Sales Development
*Team Effectiveness
*Leadership Development
*Customer Service Training
*Communication Effectiveness
*Coaching/Mentoring Relationships
Strategy & Management:
*Outplacement
*Conflict Resolution
*Change Management
*Planning and Strategy
*Culture/Transformation
*Engagement/Motivation
*Competency Framework/Development
Personal:
*Career Planning
*Family Relationships
*Marriage Counselling
*Personal Effectiveness
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TriMetrix® EQ
TriMetrix® EQ is fast becoming our most popular assessment ... a TTI SI report that combines three (3) sciences:
- Behaviors
- Drivers [External Motivators]
- Emotional Quotient
This particular combination of sciences unveils crucial insights into your ability to sense, understand and effectively apply
the power of emotions to
facilitate high levels of both
Collaboration and Productivity.
The BLENDING of three (3) cutting edge assessments turns exploring
Personal Development & Growth
into an extremely successful adventure.
Getting COACHED using THIS Report
will TRANSFORM
your Life.
3-Month Commitmentor
6-Month Commitment
It will help you MASTER your own
Emotional Intelligence
in both work and non-work situations.
Emotional Intelligence Simplified.
The TTI Emotional Quotient™ by itself alone is a 13-page report. This business-friendly EQ profile is a simple yet powerful emotional intelligence assessment designed to be used by real people
to get real results.
Descriptions of the five (5) core EQ factors measured are as follows:
- Self-Awareness : How actively we take our own emotional temperature.
- Self-Regulation : How actively we manage our emotional states in a positive manner.
- Intrinsic Motivation : How actively we use our emotional energy to move ourselves closer to our own goals.
- Social Awareness : How actively we observe others' emotional temperature.
- Social Regulation : How actively we manage the emotional states of others.
Note: The TTI Emotional Quotient™ was the first emotional intelligence assessment to be combined with the world famous DISC profile in our
Behavioural Intelligence®™ assessment.
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Billionaire Warren Buffett put it like this:
"The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything."
Warren Buffett
More Testimonials
About Coach Ruth
Testimonial #4
Patti Carpenter
Branch Office Administrator
Edward Jones | Dallas, Texas USA
What can I say about Coach Ruth?
In one word, caring. In two words, boldly honest.
In three words, committed to Truth.
I have known Ruth since our university days some forty (40) years ago. She is the same today as she was then—exuberant about G-d's Word.
In the last year, I have studied Hebrew Handwriting with Coach Ruth, and I have benefited tremendously.
My understanding of the L-RD
and His Design and Plan for humanity
has deepened and gained breadth.
I feel more connected to Jesus, and G-D's Presence feels closer and nearer when I am writing the Hebrew script....
It is a palpable experience which has transformed my spiritual journey and strengthened my spiritual life.
I would highly recommend Coach Ruth's
Hebrew Handwriting
SNIPPETS & MORSELS
To taste the goodness of G-D's Word.
as well as
F I R M . F O U N D A T I O N S
and
"One Year Soak" in the DNA of Creation.
May you be blessed by the Hebrew Lady Method®
Book Series and Programs.
I sure am.
Patti Carpenter
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EQ is a Learned Skill
UPGRADE YOURS
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Try It - You'll Like It
What ELSE does Coach Ruth do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Hebrew Handwriting
Lah-med : 12th Hebrew Letter
Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Hebrew Handwriting
Pay-so-feet : 17th Hebrew Letter
FINAL FORM
Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Hebrew Handwriting
Tsah-dee-so-feet : 18th Hebrew Letter
FINAL FORM
What can Coach Ruth help you do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
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Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Lah-med : 12th letter in Hebrew alphabet: Number of Gov't. Symbol of Authority. The goal of Lahmed is heart knowledge from Instruction. To gain knowledge in the heart. Learning & Study. "Come, and let us return to The L-ord" Hosea 6:1 ... "Shepherd Your people with Your Staff, the flock of Your Heritage" Micah 7:14
Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Pay-so-feet : 17th letter in Hebrew alphabet: Number of Victory. Symbolizes the Mouth. Declaration. Proclamation. The goal of Pay-so-feet is end a word with Victory & Pizazz because the Spoken Word is Powerful. "The L-ord said to Moses : 'I [GOD] will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall say.'" Exodus 4:12
[with the Authority of the 12]
Sample from The Hebrew Lady Method® BOOK SERIES
Tsah-dee-so-feet : 18th letter in Hebrew alphabet. Has a dual meaning, which comes to teach us that each person can choose what they want: they can go to either extreme. Symbolizes both Righteousness and Hunting.
The number 18 represents LIFE. Always coming at the end of a word, Tsah-dee-so-feet indicates the power that comes with true righteousness. "Of the increase of His Government and Peace there will be no end." Isaiah 9:7
Lyrics : Ear Candy for the Curious
Psalm 131
A song of ascents. Of David.
Verse-1 : My heart is not proud,
Lord, my eyes are not haughty;
I do not concern myself with great matters
or things too wonderful for me.
Verse-2 : But I have calmed and quieted myself,
I am like a weaned child with its mother;
like a weaned child I am content.
Verse-3 : Israel, put your hope in
The Lord both now and forevermore.
-End of Lyrics-
Would you like to learn
how to journal this text
in your Learning Journal
in Hebrew Handwriting?
David Dor / D'or sings
Psalm 131
- דוד דאור -
Sample: One of the many texts that students learn and add into their
...Hebrew Learning Journal...
the tangible album binder that each student creates through participating in the
"One Year Soak"
in the DNA of Creation
Program
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
David Dor / D'or sings
Psalm 71: 8-9
- דוד דאור -
Sample No. 2 : another of the many texts that students learn and add into their
...Hebrew Learning Journal...
the tangible album binder that each student creates through participating in the
"One Year Soak"
in the DNA of Creation
Program
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
The Path:
Personal Development
It is to grow in a healthy way.
Not like a "wild plant".
To put attention toward GROWING
To make us better people....
To change our lives....
To manifest the impact GOD / G-D intended our lives to have.
Live Your Own Story
Mentoring
Live Your Own Story
Mentoring
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help mbti-advocates
--especially NF-types--
tweak "things" to experience MORE ease-in-this-world while retaining their Identity.
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The Myers-Briggs Company Is The Exclusive Publisher Of The MBTI® Instrument.
Myers Briggs connoisseur and MBTI® Certified Practitioner Coach Ruth Toal
has joined her passions into an
"out-of-the-ordinary" but brilliant package ....
The Solutions Consultant
for
_NF_ Preferences
and for
Anyone who longs to have a SUCCESSFUL relationship with an
_NF_ Preferences type-of-person.
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What does Coach Ruth do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
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Life is a School
There are many Teachers.
People and Circumstances.
Problems and Difficulties.
IF you're reading this, you most likely are "toying"
-wrestling with-
one or more of the above.
Let me reassure you
Clarity is a beautiful form of Comfort.
With
Clarity (Comfort) and your
Attitude-set-like-a-thermostat
your Future grow into a Good One.
Life is a School
Life is HARD in some way for everyone.
You ache for 2 reasons:
1. To know WHY you are alive
2. To know HOW to do it well
The ache is for Growth
& Fulfillment.
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help Read/Write Learners and Journaling Devotees achieve beautiful Hebrew Handwriting while contemplating Bible Verses with MORE Depth.
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What does Coach Ruth do?
I help lovers of Personal
Development identify and mobilize WHAT REALLY makes them come ALIVE
so they can BE
their own BEST Advocate,
especially in negotiations.
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Visualize yourself discovering yourself here...
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help lovers of Personal
Development identify and mobilize WHAT REALLY makes them come ALIVE
so they can BE
their own BEST Advocate,
especially in negotiations.
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help mbti-advocates
--especially NF-types--
tweak "things" to experience MORE ease-in-this-world
while retaining their Identity.
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The Myers-Briggs Company Is The Exclusive Publisher Of The MBTI® Instrument.
How Our Childhood Shapes Every Aspect of Our Health
with Dr. Gabor Maté
Talk with renowned addiction expert, physician and best-selling author, Dr. Gabor Maté.
He calls for a compassionate approach toward addiction, whether in ourselves or in others.
Dr Maté believes addiction is not a choice, neither is it all about drugs and illicit substances.
Instead, he believes that addiction affects most of us – whether it be to alcohol, nicotine, sugar, work or exercise…the list is endless.
According to Dr Maté, the source of addiction is not to be found in our genes but in our early childhood.
We also talk about how our emotional stress translates into physical chronic illnesses and
how we now live in a culture that doesn’t meet our human needs.
Indeed, the conditions necessary for healthy child development are increasingly under threat in today’s society.
Loneliness and lack of meaningful connection are on the rise, as are the rates of autoimmune disease and addiction.
We discuss how the way we live our modern lives is impacting us more than we realise.
DISCLAIMER: The content in the above video and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on any video, podcast, or on my website.
What does Coach Ruth do?
I help “mothers of boys”
and NF-TYPES
--especially single women--
attain Peace-of-Mind
in raising boys
with Confidence.
Test the Power of Generosity
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The truth:
“Death is not the greatest loss in life.
The greatest loss is
what dies inside us while we live.”
Norman Cousins
Just a Poem
I AM THERE
by James Dillet Freeman
Do you need Me?
I AM there.
You cannot see Me, yet I AM
The Light you see by.
You cannot hear Me, yet I speak through
your voice.
You cannot feel Me, yet I AM the power at work in your hands.
I AM at work, though you do not understand My ways.
I AM at work, even though you do not recognize My works.
I AM not strange visions. I AM not mysteries.
Only in absolute stillness, beyond self, can you know Me as I AM, and then but as a feeling and a faith.
Yet I AM there. Yet I hear.
Yet I answer.
When you need Me, I AM there.
Even if you deny Me, I AM there.
Even when you feel most alone, I AM there.
Even in your fears, I AM there.
Even in your pain, I AM there.
I AM there when you pray and when you do not pray.
I AM in you, and you are in Me.
Only in your mind can you feel separate from Me, for only in your mind are the mists of “yours” and “mine.”
Yet only with your mind can you know Me and experience Me.
Empty your heart of empty fears.
When you get yourself out of the way,
I AM there.
You can of yourself do nothing, but I can do all.
And I AM in all.
Though you may not see the good, good is there, for I AM there.
I AM there because I have to be, because
I AM.
Only in Me does the world have meaning; only out of Me does the world take form; only because of Me does the world go forward.
I AM the law on which the movement of the stars and the growth of living cells are founded.
I AM The Love that is the law’s fulfilling.
I AM Assurance.
I AM Peace.
I AM One.
I AM The Law that you can live by.
I AM The Love that you can cling to.
I AM your assurance.
I AM your peace.
I AM one with you.
I AM.
Though you fail to find Me, I do not fail you.
Though your faith in Me is unsure, My faith in you never wavers, because I know you, because I love you.